Hello Woman .
Our mission
Hello woman is that missing class on how to deal with women's stuff. All of them.
Minus the shame, plus the laugh.
Let's be honest.
No one taught us how to deal with pms, hormones, sex, love or saying a clear "no" without guilt.
We have mostly figured it out through trial & error, for the one who figured it out.
Hello Woman exist because we deserve to do better, better tools, better conversation, better understanding.
I am Alizée, founder of Hello Woman.
I am also a 35 years old heterosexual French woman who struggled (and still is sometimes) with body image, with my femininity, with my sexuality, with men and with digestive and skin issues.
Throughout my life as a woman I went to many usual (and unfortunate) struggles like many of you,
All of my attention used to go to romantic interest with men, I felt I couldn't live without being passionately in love. And though, I was passionately in love and in fear at the same time.
Fear that he will leave me, fear that I was not beautiful enough, fear that if sex was not good enough for him he will not love me.
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I was in fear and that made me feel alive. At the same time I was unhappy, disconnected from any sensation or emotion in my body, addicted to the adrenaline of this fear. With men and with my family, I was in permanent representation, away from myself, away from authentic.
Feeling zero aliveness within me.
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When in 2019, I moved to Bali changes went much faster.
Away from my usual patterns, away from my ex-boyfriends, I had enough time to reflect, to read, to learn, to talk with hundreds of other women, to discover ideas, believes & possibilities.
I was 29 and finally had experienced enough and been unhappy enough to start reflecting on my life, who I
was, and who I wanted to become.
This process made me realized tones of things.
My main interests have been about Love & sexuality, and as a continuity of that I discovered new passions of mine:
Communication, relationship between men and women, and women sexuality.
The relationship I had with my body slowly changed for the best,
I got in deeper touch with my emotions, started to feel physical sensations,
and my sexual energy has awakened little by little.
I am still learning and it's still hard.
As a women I often have difficulty to feel and to know what my body is ok to do or not sexually,
I don't trust my ability to say a clear No even though I am sure I don't want it,
I am afraid I won't be heard,
I am afraid I will force myself like I did hundreds of time.
As a woman I often felt like any tenderness gesture, massage or touch is expected to become a sexual act,
I couldn't enjoy receiving the love because of the stress of "what if I am not turned on when he is".
As a woman I felt hundreds of time that I should have pleasure for the man to feel satisfy, so I faked orgasms.
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All those every-day difficulties that most of the women experience,
All those difficulties that men can't understand.
They would tell you "why didn't you say stop", "Why did you do it if you didn't want to, you just have to say no".
But it's deeper than that, it's engraved in the feminine brain, it's a type of obedience that is very difficult to correct.
I was lucky enough to live an emotionally and physically safe childhood & teenagerhood, and still, I could observe within me how fucked up my relationship with myself, with my body, with men has been.
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From that point, my research in life has been around those questions:
How to navigate this world with love and aliveness?
How to love men, respect myself and find the right path in those relationships, with understanding and respect for each other?
How do we express ourself? How do we understand eachother?
How do I awaken my life force energy, how do I have more sexual desire and pleasure? I do I feel alive?
What if I was not sad and frustrated for what feel like I gave so much of my love (or what felt like love at that time) and devotion to receive so little.
What if, as women we were all comfortable in our own bodies,
if we understood how it works, our hormones, our cycles, our traumas,
if we understood where our behaviors are coming from,
if we knew how to make peace with our Pussies,
if we were not afraid to turn on our sexual power,
if we were able to say what we want and what we don't,
if we were not afraid of judgments, controlling, frustrated?
Won't the world be better if women are happier and healthier?
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For three years I have been giving tantric and belly massages to women.
Those amazing women opened up to me about their sexual difficulties, bodies difficulties, health difficulties,
we talked about the most intimate things. Those kind of struggle we can all relate to.
The idea of Hello woman. started to grow in my mind.
How can I create a space for women to evolve, to learn, the get confident, safe, loving?
My deeper wish was to gather women together and create a community where we could support eachother, hear eachother.
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The first idea was to share about sexuality and romantic relationships, but it now expended to health, holistic medicine, motherwood, menopause, hormones, and so much more.
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​Hello woman. is here to push women to LEARN about every topic related to womanhood life.
With this intension, we organize women's retreats, that will be coming soon.
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Up to three weeks retreats where you will relax, travel, discover, enjoy,
And above all, you will learn golden knowledge from amazing professionals.​​
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Gynecologists, naturopaths, holistic doctors, menopause and hormones specialists, sex and relationship therapists, massage therapist, yoga teachers, meditations teachers, and so much more.
Hello woman retreats are a perfect balance between holidays, rest for the body and mind, and learning what you need to feel better in every way.
Hello Woman . ​
has three missions
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To share knowledge
Through immersive retreats, and also through online content — with book suggestions, podcast episodes, interviews, and stories.
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To create a community
A place where women can connect, share, feel safe, relate to each other, and grow — together.
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To give back
Hello woman is also a foundation. We use part of the retreats profits, & your donations, to support women in need.
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Contact Us
We speak English & French
Paris, France & Ubud, Bali, Indonesia